Inserts Words of Wisdom

Inserts from the books by Dale Carnegie
Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain, it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving. Criticizing is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and makes them justify it. When dealing with people keep in mind that they are not creatures of logic, they are creatures of emotion.
Our life is what our thoughts make it.
Today’s bread is the only kind of bread you can possibly eat. Take one grain at a time by taking one task at a time. Today is a new life.
We may not be saintly enough to love our enemies, but, for the sake of our own health and happiness, let’s at least forgive them and forget them. That is the smart thing to do.
Instead of hating our enemies, let’s pity them and thank God that life has not made us what they are. Instead of condemnation and revenge, let’s give our enemies our understanding, our sympathy, our forgiveness, and our prayers.
The only way in this world you can ever hope to be loved is to stop asking for it and to start pouring out love without hope of return.
I had the blues because I had no shoes, until upon the street; I meet a man who had no feet.
Let’s not waste a second worrying because we are not like other people. You are something new in this world. Never before, since the beginning of time, has there ever been anybody exactly like you; and never again throughout all the ages to come will there ever be anybody exactly like you again. You’ve got to be you with all your faults and limitations. You can’t possible be anyone else. You are something new in this world. Be glad of it. Make the most of what nature gave you.
When you are kicked and criticized, remember that it is often done because it gives the kicker a feeling of importance. It often means that you are accomplishing something and are worthy of attention. Many people get a sense of savage satisfaction out of denouncing those who are better educated or successful than they are. No one ever kicks a dead dog.
If we hear that someone has spoken ill of us, let’s not try to defend ourselves. Every Fool does that. Let’s be original and humble and brilliant!
Inserts from the book Kiss My Tiara
Fairy Tale Number 6 -True love is instant, you will know it the minute you see the person. Nope- Trust, communication and kindness take time to unveil and build.
Fairy Tale Number 7 – Boys tease us because they like us. No- It’s an exercise of possessiveness, control and ego, abuse is not an acceptable expression of love.
Love turns everybody into a vulnerable dithering moron. Don’t treat your friends like leftovers.
We do not have anything to gain by judging or criticizing each other but we do have everything to lose.
Ignore your jealous heart and promote your friends happiness. What goes around comes around, help spread the good karma.
Every idiot we date is one less idiot we risk marrying.